Hvor lenge er det akseptabelt å blokkere noen?

[AnonymBruker]

Everybody skrev (7 minutter siden):

Jeg mistenker at du tror du er bedre enn personen du ignorerer. At personen trenger deg mer enn du trenger hen. Hadde du likt hvis noen hadde ignorert deg i 2 uker?

Dette er snakk om moren eller faren til ts. Det er enten henne eller han hun blokkerer. Tidligere har ts vært åpen om at hun har blokkert moren. Tipper at det ikke er annerledes denne gangen. 

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[Vhanja]

TS vil fjerne blokkeringen igjen så fort hun trenger penger. Også synes hun oppriktig at foreldrene er teite og urettferdige - og faktisk har begynnende demens - fordi de nekter å gi henne penger og betale boliglånet hennes selv når hun blokkerer dem og andre familiemedlemmer i dager og uker for "irritasjon".

Dette er enten et troll eller en person med så lite selvinnsikt og så lite modenhet at hun burde oppsøke hjelp.

[AnonymBruker]

AnonymBruker skrev (2 timer siden):

Dette er snakk om moren eller faren til ts. Det er enten henne eller han hun blokkerer. Tidligere har ts vært åpen om at hun har blokkert moren. Tipper at det ikke er annerledes denne gangen. 

Anonymkode: f8289...165

 

AnonymBruker skrev (2 timer siden):

Dette er snakk om moren eller faren til ts. Det er enten henne eller han hun blokkerer. Tidligere har ts vært åpen om at hun har blokkert moren. Tipper at det ikke er annerledes denne gangen. 

Anonymkode: f8289...165

Her tar dere feil. 

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[AnonymBruker]

Vhanja skrev (6 minutter siden):

TS vil fjerne blokkeringen igjen så fort hun trenger penger. Også synes hun oppriktig at foreldrene er teite og urettferdige - og faktisk har begynnende demens - fordi de nekter å gi henne penger og betale boliglånet hennes selv når hun blokkerer dem og andre familiemedlemmer i dager og uker for "irritasjon".

Dette er enten et troll eller en person med så lite selvinnsikt og så lite modenhet at hun burde oppsøke hjelp.

Du tar og feil (igjen)!

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[Vhanja]

AnonymBruker skrev (2 minutter siden):

Du tar og feil (igjen)!

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Det hjelper ikke å si "feil" når alle andre innleggene dine bekrefter det motsatte. Da blir det bare et tomt ord.

[AnonymBruker]

Vhanja skrev (5 minutter siden):

Det hjelper ikke å si "feil" når alle andre innleggene dine bekrefter det motsatte. Da blir det bare et tomt ord.

Kan du slutte nå? 

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[Vhanja]

AnonymBruker skrev (Akkurat nå):

Kan du slutte nå? 

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Jeg slutter når du gjør det. 

[AnonymBruker]

Vhanja skrev (Akkurat nå):

Jeg slutter når du gjør det. 

Hvorfor skal du alltid kommentere meg? Jeg klarer meg uten din hjelp. 

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[Everybody]

The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse that involves intentionally ignoring or refusing to communicate with someone. This can be extremely damaging because it undermines the other person's sense of self-worth and can lead to feelings of rejection, isolation, and depression.

One reason why the silent treatment is so harmful is that it creates a sense of uncertainty and anxiety for the person who is being ignored. They may start to wonder what they did wrong or what they can do to make things right, and this can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt.

Additionally, the silent treatment can be used as a way to manipulate and control someone. By withholding communication, the person giving the silent treatment is able to assert power over the other person and make them feel powerless and helpless.

Over time, being subjected to the silent treatment can lead to long-term psychological harm, such as low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. It can also damage relationships irreparably, as the person being ignored may eventually give up on trying to communicate and withdraw from the relationship altogether.

Overall, the silent treatment is a harmful and destructive behavior that should be avoided. Open communication and healthy conflict resolution strategies are much more effective in building healthy relationships and resolving conflicts.

[AnonymBruker]

Everybody skrev (4 minutter siden):

The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse that involves intentionally ignoring or refusing to communicate with someone. This can be extremely damaging because it undermines the other person's sense of self-worth and can lead to feelings of rejection, isolation, and depression.

One reason why the silent treatment is so harmful is that it creates a sense of uncertainty and anxiety for the person who is being ignored. They may start to wonder what they did wrong or what they can do to make things right, and this can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt.

Additionally, the silent treatment can be used as a way to manipulate and control someone. By withholding communication, the person giving the silent treatment is able to assert power over the other person and make them feel powerless and helpless.

Over time, being subjected to the silent treatment can lead to long-term psychological harm, such as low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. It can also damage relationships irreparably, as the person being ignored may eventually give up on trying to communicate and withdraw from the relationship altogether.

Overall, the silent treatment is a harmful and destructive behavior that should be avoided. Open communication and healthy conflict resolution strategies are much more effective in building healthy relationships and resolving conflicts.

Og? 

Anonymkode: 83398...605

[Everybody]

AnonymBruker skrev (Akkurat nå):

Og? 

Anonymkode: 83398...605

The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse that involves intentionally ignoring or refusing to communicate with someone. This can be extremely damaging because it undermines the other person's sense of self-worth and can lead to feelings of rejection, isolation, and depression.

One reason why the silent treatment is so harmful is that it creates a sense of uncertainty and anxiety for the person who is being ignored. They may start to wonder what they did wrong or what they can do to make things right, and this can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt.

Additionally, the silent treatment can be used as a way to manipulate and control someone. By withholding communication, the person giving the silent treatment is able to assert power over the other person and make them feel powerless and helpless.

Over time, being subjected to the silent treatment can lead to long-term psychological harm, such as low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. It can also damage relationships irreparably, as the person being ignored may eventually give up on trying to communicate and withdraw from the relationship altogether.

Overall, the silent treatment is a harmful and destructive behavior that should be avoided. Open communication and healthy conflict resolution strategies are much more effective in building healthy relationships and resolving conflicts.

[AnonymBruker]

Everybody skrev (Akkurat nå):

The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse that involves intentionally ignoring or refusing to communicate with someone. This can be extremely damaging because it undermines the other person's sense of self-worth and can lead to feelings of rejection, isolation, and depression.

One reason why the silent treatment is so harmful is that it creates a sense of uncertainty and anxiety for the person who is being ignored. They may start to wonder what they did wrong or what they can do to make things right, and this can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt.

Additionally, the silent treatment can be used as a way to manipulate and control someone. By withholding communication, the person giving the silent treatment is able to assert power over the other person and make them feel powerless and helpless.

Over time, being subjected to the silent treatment can lead to long-term psychological harm, such as low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. It can also damage relationships irreparably, as the person being ignored may eventually give up on trying to communicate and withdraw from the relationship altogether.

Overall, the silent treatment is a harmful and destructive behavior that should be avoided. Open communication and healthy conflict resolution strategies are much more effective in building healthy relationships and resolving conflicts.

Ja jeg forstår hva som står der. 

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[AnonymBruker]

Everybody skrev (9 timer siden):

The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse that involves intentionally ignoring or refusing to communicate with someone. This can be extremely damaging because it undermines the other person's sense of self-worth and can lead to feelings of rejection, isolation, and depression.

One reason why the silent treatment is so harmful is that it creates a sense of uncertainty and anxiety for the person who is being ignored. They may start to wonder what they did wrong or what they can do to make things right, and this can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt.

Additionally, the silent treatment can be used as a way to manipulate and control someone. By withholding communication, the person giving the silent treatment is able to assert power over the other person and make them feel powerless and helpless.

Over time, being subjected to the silent treatment can lead to long-term psychological harm, such as low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. It can also damage relationships irreparably, as the person being ignored may eventually give up on trying to communicate and withdraw from the relationship altogether.

Overall, the silent treatment is a harmful and destructive behavior that should be avoided. Open communication and healthy conflict resolution strategies are much more effective in building healthy relationships and resolving conflicts.

Synes du overreagerer ved å bruke siltent treatment i mitt tilfelle. 

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[Glitter]

AnonymBruker skrev (10 minutter siden):

Synes du overreagerer ved å bruke siltent treatment i mitt tilfelle. 

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Hva mener du selv at du gjør da? 

[AnonymBruker]

Glitter skrev (9 minutter siden):

Hva mener du selv at du gjør da? 

Holder freden nede. 

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[AnonymBruker]

Glitter skrev (9 minutter siden):

Hva mener du selv at du gjør da? 

«Når man ikke har noe pent å si skal man ikke snakke. Man har to ører og en munn for en grunn» og jeg har ingenting fint å si akkurat nå, derfor er jeg stille. Jeg har brent meg mange ganger før ved å si ting jeg ikke mener og dermed har det blitt større en det trenger å være.

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[Vhanja]

AnonymBruker skrev (5 minutter siden):

«Når man ikke har noe pent å si skal man ikke snakke. Man har to ører og en munn for en grunn» og jeg har ingenting fint å si akkurat nå, derfor er jeg stille. Jeg har brent meg mange ganger før ved å si ting jeg ikke mener og dermed har det blitt større en det trenger å være.

Anonymkode: 83398...605

Hvorfor startet du tråden hvis du allerede har bestemt deg for hva du skal gjøre, hvor lenge du skal gjøre og bare forsvarer det du gjør?

[Ekstra]

Utrolig hvor lenge man kan diskutere dette og gjenta det samme.

Det er ikke akseptabelt å blokkere nære relasjoner overhodet, med mindre det er snakk om frykt for overgrep eller annet særdeles alvorlig.

[AnonymBruker]

Vhanja skrev (3 minutter siden):

Hvorfor startet du tråden hvis du allerede har bestemt deg for hva du skal gjøre, hvor lenge du skal gjøre og bare forsvarer det du gjør?

Jeg har ikke bestemt meg. Fordi jeg ville høre om jeg var urimelig. Men det blir jeg alltid når du kommer på banen og du sier bare negativt til meg uansett hva jeg foretar meg. 

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[Glitter]

AnonymBruker skrev (9 minutter siden):

«Når man ikke har noe pent å si skal man ikke snakke. Man har to ører og en munn for en grunn» og jeg har ingenting fint å si akkurat nå, derfor er jeg stille. Jeg har brent meg mange ganger før ved å si ting jeg ikke mener og dermed har det blitt større en det trenger å være.

Anonymkode: 83398...605

Men nå har du jo fått entydig svar omtrent på at å blokkere ikke er greit. Og de få som har sagt det kan være greit, sikter til tilfeller hvor de blir trakassert på ulike måter og vil bryte kontakten. Så alle har jo sånn sett sagt at å blokkere er ikke innafor. 

Hva tenker du om det?