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[Gjest matik]

i'm sorry to write in english because i don't have enough words in norwegian. I have a big problem to trust my wife when it comes to men,because i often think that i'm not good enough for her(i know sometimes that it's not true,and i know that she loves me) But my anger and aggression become bigger the time we have a man working for us and he gets more attention and when even i say something about him,she does not like it and she starts being against me, then i start thinking what is so special about him. I start Automatically to say and do bad things that i do not mean and get more angry, aggressive and sad, So she's saying to me that i'm jealouse,yes i am and i'm not ashamed to say that,but then i get more angry and aggressive which is not good.So please help me to take that gost from me, because I LOVE MY WIFE much more than a word can say. Thank you

[Gjest sjøstjerna]

I don't have any advice which will solve the problem completely- but you must start to trust yourself. Of course, you are good enough. Your wife chose you. Try to remind yourself about that. She loves you, and prefer to be with you.

Don't let other men become "ghosts" between you and your wife. She don't care about other men- she cares about you. Do not talk about other men with her. Show her that you trust her. Again- remind yourself that she prefer to be with YOU.

Good luck.