Kjæresten min sendte meg melding der hun sier hun vil ta livet sitt, hva kan jeg gjøre ? Dette sendte hun:

[AnonymBruker]

Hun har ikke svart på 5 dager, burde jeg være bekymret?  Har ringt og sendt meldinger flere ganger men får ikke noe svar tilbake, hun er Tyskland nå fordi hun sa hun skulle besøke hennes besteforeldre også sender hun meg plutselig en melding , trodde vi hadde det fint sammen og alt var bra så dette er litt uforventet , hun skrev : «Hey James, read until the end if you are . My life has been hell since I was a kid, I grew up with verbally abusive parents and a narcissist ex who used my traumas against me at the end and tried to hurt me as much as possible, when all I did was love him, it hurts so much, he also lied a lot and cheated on me and more, just a cruel person who gave 0 fucks about my feelings, idk how someone can be so cold. He love bombed me into loving him after I did everything went to hell, he knew it was gonna be harder for me to leave so he just started to verbally abuse me and just treat me the worst . Everyone I meet has been like that, they treat me as a robot without feelings, they don’t care that I’m a human with feelings. I tried to be strong but I can’t , I have too much trauma to ever trust anyone again so nothing works, I can’t meet new people cuz I’ll just think they will switch on me like this , the people that I loved the most did this to me so why wouldn’t they? I’m so paranoid, but when I’m alone it’s like I feel so depressed and lonely and when I’m with people it just stresses me a lot and makes me overthink to the point where I can’t keep the friendship anymore, I tried to work on it it don’t work, but thank you for treating me normal, ik it’s the bare minimum to show respect to your partner and not verbally abusive them or take advantage of their feelings for you or their kindness, it’s conmen sense , but not everyone knows common sense . I’m just glad I got to spend 3 months with you, even tho it’s not a lot I’m just happy you didn’t make me feel so shitty about myself for no reason, you’re one of the good people I meet in my life thank you again, I’m ending everything today knowing that at least one person didn’t judge me and let me be myself and it’s you, I love you, see you again in heaven bye<3” 

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[Lady HM]

Hvis dette er reelt, så ja - selvfølgelig burde du være bekymret!!!

[AnonymBruker]

Er det du som er james? Skjønte ingenting jeg. 

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[ISW]

Det der så egentlig litt ut som en kjedemelding, men jeg kan ta feil.

Er det noe hold i denne historien da? Har hun opplevd disse tingene?